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20 Ways to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Long-Distance Relationship

It has been claimed that love is more than just a feeling as we travel through life as humans. A trip that crosses continents, jumps through cities, and even forges through the rocky seas of a long-distance relationship.

Every long-distance couple wants to make that journey not just accessible, but also genuinely delightful and fulfilling. Here are 20 suggestions for making your long-distance relationship more personal and passionate by keeping the spark alive:

1. Future Planning

Even when you’re separated, you may still make plans for the future. Dream of your shared house, your trips, and your next projects. Making plans together may strengthen your bond and give you each something fun to anticipate by keeping the spark alive.

2. Wine Tasting Together

Start a virtual wine tasting by picking the same wine. Discuss the sounds you hear, the fragrances you smell, and the texture you experience. With each drink, you’ll learn more regarding the wine and one another as well.

3. Watch Romantic Movies Together

Select a movie together and watch it together at the same time. Then discuss the movie on the call either throughout the movie or after it. Watching a movie together and going through the emotional and romantic rollercoaster together will make you feel like watching a movie in a cozy room together by keeping the spark alive. 

4. Intimate Questioning Game

Play a game together where you both would ask each other intimate and wild questions. This could include everything, including your wildest dream, biggest fear, or most embarrassing moment. 

5. Shower Together Virtually

Select a time and day where you both could shower or bathe together virtually, which could seem daring but would provide a great sense of trust and intimacy and help strengthen the bond in your long-distance relationship. 

6. Matching Pajamas

Get matching pajamas and wear them together during your video calls to feel connected and involved in each other’s life and daily night routine. 

7. Write an Intimate Letter

In the time of digitalization, writing an intimate letter can feel extremely fresh and romantic. You can write your deepest feelings, desires and love for each other and then share the letters to experience the warmth and love together by keeping the spark alive. 

8. Watch the Moon Together

Set a time to watch the moon together. This will help you feel more connected to each other in an indescribable way. This will make the world seem smaller around you, and your hearts will be bigger with love and connection in your long-distance relationship. 

9. Cook Together Online

Pick a recipe and cook it together online through video call. This will be so much fun as the activity and the delicious food will help you both enjoy together and feel closer to each other. 

10. Pay a Surprise Visit

There is nothing that can match a surprise visit to your special one. While planning and coordination can look good, a surprise visit to your partner when they least expect it, will be gold and unforgettable for them and you as well.

11. Write a Journal Together

Start writing an online journal together where you both can share your daily activities, feelings, and intimate thoughts. This will help you stay connected, strengthen your relationship, and become a testament of your love journey. 

12. Wear Customized Jewelry

Get customized jewelry made for you and your partner, and wear it together. You can use a special quote, a memory, or a special symbol to customize your jewelry and brand it as your bond symbol. 

13. Send a Loving Voice Message

Record and send a heartfelt voice message with all your loving feelings for your partner. Hearing your voice from a long distance can help them feel refreshed and comforted, while also enhancing your emotional bond for each other. 

14. Send Intimate Photos

Send intimate and romantic photos to each other to enhance the intimacy and feel closer to each other. This requires a lot of trust and a strong emotional bonding, which will further increase and strengthen your trust and bond. 

15. Get Matching Tattoos

Get matching tattoos together. This will not only represent your commitment to each other but will also increase your bond by constantly reminding you both of each other. 

16. Read a Novel Together

Select a novel and read it together on call. This will help you relive and experience each twist, turn, emotion, and feeling more vividly and intimately with each other. 

17. Share Your Vision Together

Share your vision with each other regarding everything including your future, dreams, profession, personal life, finances, vacations, and much more. Then create a chart to fulfill these visions together,  growing and getting ahead in life together. 

18. Have an Online Romantic Dinner

Plan a candlelit romantic dinner with each other online through video calling. Sitting in your own home, having your favorite meal, while sharing your love and romantic feelings for each other can seem so romantic and fun if you plan it well. 

19. Send a Surprise Gift

Sending anything to surprise your partner can instantly make their day and spark up your long distance relationship. You can send anything from flowers, to food, clothes, gifts, or really anything. Unexpected surprise gifts are the best kind of gifts and can instantly help your partner feel loved and cared for. 

20. Share Love Quotes

Send a loving, romantic and meaningful love quote to your partner each day. Words can enhance feelings and have great power. Sending a love quote each day will help you both feel loved, cherished and celebrated everyday in your long-distance relationship. 

Conclusion

Keeping the spark alive in a long-distance relationship can be a lot of work. However, if you work on the simple ways mentioned above, you can easily spice up your relationship, to prevent it from becoming boring with time. Just remember to consult with each other every step of the way in your relationship to strengthen your bond and connection.